How does one succeed in life?

Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Procrastinates a lot.

What type of narcissist cheats more and gets pleasure out of hurting you, even if they're married?

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why is Taylor Swift re-recording her albums?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

That's it for today.

Why is my coworker suddenly being so mean towards then being nice like nothing happened? She is nice with everyone but me.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What do you wear when you are alone at home?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How do I complain on a boy coming to marriage with me without my involvement despite no connection with him though he had an illegal affair?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How do the youth in Taiwan perceive their national identity in relation to China?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Does any other guys get turned on by dick pic makes you lick lips because you what to suck?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Have you ever been forced into bestiality?

Does not procrastinate.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Is using tech to track or monitor your partner’s activities a sign of love, insecurity, or control?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can a cop pull you over walking home asking why you are out so late?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do older siblings always hate younger siblings?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hangs out with loser friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.